Book Review: A Bonded Friendship 📚💜

A Bonded Friendship by Gretchel Hathaway is a work of historical fiction based on the true story of Eliphalet Nott, President of Union College, and Moses Viney—an escaped slave who later became Nott’s driver and confidant during the 1800s.

The story reflects a documented relationship between these two men, while also incorporating fictional elements—especially in the life of Moses, his wife Anna, and their personal journey, where historical records are limited.

Before the story even begins, the preface sets the tone.

The author shares her careful approach to language—acknowledging the weight of historical accuracy while choosing not to include certain harmful or derogatory terms.

That alone stood out to me. It showed intention, respect, and thoughtfulness—and honestly, it warmed my heart.

It made me pause and reflect on something deeper.

How often do we take the time to truly think about our relationships?

How they form… and why they last?

This book explores a relationship that, on the surface, seems unlikely:

A highly respected white professor and a man who had escaped slavery.

But when you consider the time period, the laws, the beliefs, and the realities of that era…

It becomes something even more powerful.

I fell in love with this story.

Not just because of the history—but because of the humanity within it.

There are moments in history that people would rather not revisit. Some even try to ignore or erase them.

But history is real.

And stories like this matter.

It’s remarkable that we have a story like this—especially one that gives voice to Moses Viney.

That we have a “whole” story about him… that matters.

That is rare.

And it’s something that should not be overlooked, especially considering how much of Black history has been lost, overlooked, or erased.

I personally enjoy reading and learning more about history, especially stories connected to slavery and Black history.

There is always more to understand, and this book felt like an important part of that journey.

Would I recommend this book?

Absolutely.

If you have any interest in history—or simply want to experience a story rooted in strength, dignity, and humanity—I encourage you to give this one a chance.

💬 Let’s talk: Have you read a story like this before? What are your thoughts on historical fiction that explores real relationships?

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